What do you look for in the opposite sex?

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Post by Bomby » Sat Jan 10, 2004 7:34 pm

A personality. And by a personality I don't mean someone who's just really nice. I mean someone who I can talk to about ANYTHING and can laugh my ass off with.

They don't have to be super smart, just smart enough... you know what I mean?

I'm not a big fan of smoking... I guess I could date someone who smoked but they'd have to be really special for me to marry them. I'd try to get them to quit smoking anyways, and I would help them quit if they were willing.

I like a girl nice body. I know everybody says "Oh looks shouldn't matter." Well, in the prefect world, they wouldn't, but guess what: This isn't the good ship lollypop. An ugly lady won't get me very hype for bedtime.

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Post by Gumchum » Sun Jan 11, 2004 12:38 am

Same species.
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Post by Marioman143 » Sun Jan 11, 2004 12:49 am

^ That's good starting point...

I just look to someone I can talk to, and kind deal with my child like Johnny Knoville antics and laugh about them. Next would be interests, and telling me about them so I can tell if I'm into that. And lastly, you gotta atleast be nice looking. Not J-Lo or anything, but don't be Rosie O'Donnel.

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Post by Gumchum » Sun Jan 11, 2004 2:40 am

^ It is on New Year's.
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Post by Vinny » Sun Jan 11, 2004 12:54 pm

She's gotta be beautiful. You can be however politically correct you want, but at the end of the day, the eye's impression is the first impression you get of a person (although I don't think I've ever experienced love at first sight, but I can still tell when someone's beautiful just from seeing them for the first time in my life). Then smart; not really a brainiac but someone who has a say on things. I mean, I've met people (female more than anything) who don't have an opinion on anything, and even when they do, they wouldn't do anything to contest it when it comes under fire, just sit and smile naively. I can't really relate to those people, and I would want someone that I can talk to and argue with, and who has the necessary intelligence to be able to contest their own ground well.

She'd have to be funny and very nice. Cuddly works, too. Someone whom you'd feel good around. And, like Sabrilocke said, depressed would (strangely) work. I mean, it's nice to be the knight in shining armor, the one who's always there and can cheer her up.

Finally, it's the way she makes me feel, that she would make me crave her. So far there has only been one person ever who was managed to do this to me: that I'm so desperately in love with her that not having her with me, not being able to talk to her, to hold her in my arms, to feel so distanced from her even when she's sitting right next to me depresses me, sometimes even to the point of crying. Someone that you love so much that it hurts so bad that you can't take it. At one point the mere sight of her automatically depressed me. I think if there ever was a definition for true love, that would be it. And I think I could only marry someone who made me feel like that.

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Post by Kazooie64 » Sun Jan 11, 2004 1:16 pm

They'd have to be funny and not insanely serious. I guess I wouldn't really care about looks, but I wouldn't fall in love with some 260 lb. lardass. I can't really stand muscle men, anyone who "knows all", or anyone that always tries to prove they're better than everyone. To sum it up, I like friendly, funny guys.

...I also seem to be attracted to guys with glasses. I don't know why. I guess I just find that cute. =/

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Post by Heroine of the Dragon » Mon Jan 12, 2004 1:52 am

Beauty is sooooooooo in the eye of the beholder! ;)

He's gotta be compassionate, able to pick me up aaaaaand.... find me mildly amusing ocassionally ! Oh and he must like eating Chinese food. That's it. LOL I'd be serious, but I'd rather not. [img]tongue.gif[/img] :D
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Post by Godot » Mon Jan 12, 2004 8:05 pm

I'm looking for a guy who isn't think too much about style, and doesn't trys to be someone who he really not. He needs to be sweet, and caring, but not too overpower or wants someone to battle their own fights for them. I don't care if they are meek or brave, it whats matters in their hearts.
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Post by Super_Mario_1987 » Tue Jan 13, 2004 9:53 am

Looks and personality are the main thing. Some combos in some cases would work like a not so totally hott chick but has a great personality, or a hott chick with a bad personality, but the one that will never happen is ugly chick with an ugly personality.

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Post by Shinigami » Wed Jan 14, 2004 1:58 am

A woman like me.

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Post by Bomby » Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:22 pm

^^ Really? What's wrong with outgoing?

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