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Post by Vinny » Tue Nov 18, 2003 1:36 pm

Originally posted by Brandon2390:
I used to be like you guys I won't deny it. Hell, I was afraid to even look a hot girl in the eyes before. But, one girl helped me open up, and now that girl means alot to me. You have to at least try to create conversation though, or else you'll spend the rest of your life shy. So just try it, it will work.
Oh, believe me, I try. I'll be sitting right next to her and desperately trying to come up with something to say, trying to think of some subject to talk about, but it just isn't easy. I don't know, when I'm with other people it's the easiest thing in the world even though there may be a few pauses, but sometimes I just can't.

And I don't have any reputation either, so that doesn't help. People don't really know me. I mean, for example, I don't have any friends close enough to call a "best" friend. They're all just acquaintances, really. I'll admit that no one from my school has ever invited me anywhere, not to their house, not to the movies, nowhere, and I've been here for 2 years. Last year I didn't even have a birthday party... I used to get seriously depressed over it last year, but I guess I've learned to live with it now, even though it still hits me now and then. And I haven't always been like this, either. Before I came to London I was one of the most popular people and I had a lot of friends. I don't really know what went wrong, but I think I don't really belong here...

Anyway, sorry for boring you with the sordid details of how much my life sucks, you can all return to more important things now.

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Post by Marioman143 » Tue Nov 18, 2003 9:09 pm

Wow Vinny, that sucks ass.

But anyway, I don't see what you guys are so spastic about when it comes to talking to girls. You don't need to desperately think of one, just comment of some things she says and eventually something will click into a conversation.

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Post by Heroine of the Dragon » Wed Nov 19, 2003 2:36 am

Didn't bore me in the slightest, Vinny... *hugs ya too* The only thing I can suggest is to ask open questions... ones that don't require a yes or no answer... you know, -"what's your fav...?"- type of questions and then make a comment on what the answer is and perhaps ask why it's her fav. And good luck. :D
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Post by Vinny » Thu Nov 20, 2003 5:52 pm

Thanks everyone. *hugs back* Today was a good day, actually. Talked with these 2 pretty cool guys for a while during my double lunch, and on the bus home the girl I liked was on my bus. At first there was like a 10 minute post, but then conversation started. Yay :D . The part that's so hard about a conversation is starting it. Once it gets going it's easy if the other one's interested enough. But sometimes I just can't come up with anything to say.

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Post by Bomby » Thu Nov 20, 2003 7:09 pm

Ah Vinny, it's time to transform you from Vinny the Ninny to Vinny the Pimp.

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Post by Monster-in-a-Box » Thu Nov 20, 2003 11:27 pm

I find it really easy to talk with girls, and even flirt with them a little, but when it comes to mustering up all my courage to ask them out, I get way too nervous.

I have a female friend that I know is getting into me more and more, but I dunno if I should speed things up and just spring for it.. :(

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Post by Vinny » Fri Nov 21, 2003 12:53 pm

Man, that sucks KK. I don't know why everyone's pitying me when they should be commiserating with you. You have my deepest sympathies. We should definitely start a club.

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Yo, get yo ass over heah before I pimpslap you back to Korea ;) !

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Post by Godot » Fri Nov 21, 2003 12:56 pm

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