A bit of an issue..
Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2004 11:03 pm
There's a girl I've really liked for quite a long time. I mean, I've had my eye on her a loooooong time. I don't want to ramble on about how awesome I think this girl is, so let's just say she's perfect and all that.
Anyways, about 2 months ago she broke up with her guy, and went through a breif period of man-hating, aside from her male friends that were close. I was one of them. Since then, she's known that I have a thing for her, and I know she'd spend time with me alone if I asked. Well, I did, and she accepted. Since then we've hung out a few times and gotten a lot friendlier. The problem?
She doesn't want to be in any relationships anymore. She's told me pretty clearly she enjoys messing around with me and doing freaky stuff exclusively, but that's it. No bond other than being sex pals. That also means, to her, not calling all the time, buying each other gifts, claiming the other as their girl/guy, etc. This bothers me mostly because I worry about her fooling around with other guys, but that she also might not be into me enough to want to be attached. And I hate to admit it, but as much as it bothers me that she doesn't want to be my girlfriend, I don't want to cut my ties with her, and therefore end my.. hearty supply of ass and boobs [img]redface.gif[/img]
Still, there's that nagging part of my conscience that tells me I shouldn't screw with girls I'm not exclusively seeing. Your thoughts? =/
Anyways, about 2 months ago she broke up with her guy, and went through a breif period of man-hating, aside from her male friends that were close. I was one of them. Since then, she's known that I have a thing for her, and I know she'd spend time with me alone if I asked. Well, I did, and she accepted. Since then we've hung out a few times and gotten a lot friendlier. The problem?
She doesn't want to be in any relationships anymore. She's told me pretty clearly she enjoys messing around with me and doing freaky stuff exclusively, but that's it. No bond other than being sex pals. That also means, to her, not calling all the time, buying each other gifts, claiming the other as their girl/guy, etc. This bothers me mostly because I worry about her fooling around with other guys, but that she also might not be into me enough to want to be attached. And I hate to admit it, but as much as it bothers me that she doesn't want to be my girlfriend, I don't want to cut my ties with her, and therefore end my.. hearty supply of ass and boobs [img]redface.gif[/img]
Still, there's that nagging part of my conscience that tells me I shouldn't screw with girls I'm not exclusively seeing. Your thoughts? =/
