WAY confused and self-hating (might be offensive to some)
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Wyborn
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Well...I know I can't really speak about this very much, but really, what's the big deal about being bi? It's not that big a deal, believe it or not. If you're bisexual and have urges that result from that, that's fine. There's no reason to feel homophobic; it's a social stigma, but it's honestly not a bad thing to be. Just accept yourself for who you are and go with it. I don't think anybody (who matters) is going to look down on you if you pursue those urges.
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Very nicely said, SilverWind!
If I may just comment too...
Accepting yourself is seriously a hard thing to do when you're so confused but it's one of the first steps. Tis very hard to find positives when you feel so down but in these sorta situations, talking about it will help. There may be no sudden answers to your questions, but being able to express your fears and especially your feelings has gotta be good for you, even if to just share the burden at first.
Your mom is showing she cares... even by asking awkward questions. Answer as honestly as possible and try to explain that you're confused as well.
I hope things work out well for you and... try to smile.
*gives ya a @->-- (flower)*
[ May 05, 2004, 04:31 AM: Message edited by: Heroine of the Dragon ]
If I may just comment too...
Accepting yourself is seriously a hard thing to do when you're so confused but it's one of the first steps. Tis very hard to find positives when you feel so down but in these sorta situations, talking about it will help. There may be no sudden answers to your questions, but being able to express your fears and especially your feelings has gotta be good for you, even if to just share the burden at first.
Your mom is showing she cares... even by asking awkward questions. Answer as honestly as possible and try to explain that you're confused as well.
I hope things work out well for you and... try to smile.
*gives ya a @->-- (flower)*
[ May 05, 2004, 04:31 AM: Message edited by: Heroine of the Dragon ]
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^ Don't feed the morons your intellectualism. It's just like those signs that say "Don't feed the bears because they'll rip you a new one if you get too close"... or something like that...
Anyways, the topic's been pretty much cleared of everything that's been needed to be addressed, so pretty much I support what everyone's said in this topic (aside from such idiots who shan't be named).
The best thing I can do for you aside that is be here for you if you need to talk. You know my AIM name; you're on my list. If you need to chat or just have someone listen, ping me when you're online, kay dear?
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Anyways, the topic's been pretty much cleared of everything that's been needed to be addressed, so pretty much I support what everyone's said in this topic (aside from such idiots who shan't be named).
The best thing I can do for you aside that is be here for you if you need to talk. You know my AIM name; you're on my list. If you need to chat or just have someone listen, ping me when you're online, kay dear?
"There are some who call me... Link?"
"Carpe Gaium Domesticum!" (Seize the Cucco!)
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Carpe Pullum Domesticum! (Seize the Cucco!) 
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