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ok so basically im not girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 4:47 am
by DarkZero
EDIT: I am NOT a girl, as it turns out! I'm actually nonbinary, more information here: https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sqthvj?new_post=true

Below is the original post, for posterity's sake:
It wasn't an easy decision to come to, but after weighing the pros and cons a LOT, I've decided this is what I want to do.

I've been having a lot of doubts and confusing about my gender identity for a while, and while I'm not 100% sure that being female is right for me, it is absolutely something I want to pursue. I've changed my pronouns on most of the internet by this point and have come out in a few different circles already. Haven't come out IRL, and I have no particular plans to anytime soon. It's much safer for me to limit this to my internet presence for right now, I think.

Also I've decided that I like the name "Zoe", so if you ever want to refer to me casually in a conversation, that'll be my name.

Probably still gonna keep my username as DarkZero. If I do end up changing it, it'll probably be something with the same acronym bc tbh I like it when people call me DZ.

TL;DR I'm a girl now, she/her pronouns please, call me Zoe if you want

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 5:44 am
by Valigarmander
Congrats. :) Best wishes for you going forward.

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 7:48 am
by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds
Welcome out, Zoe! Thank you for sharing this wonderful news with us~ <3

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 7:51 am
by Deepfake
Congrats :)

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 8:11 am
by CaptHayfever
DarkZoe, got it. :)

And remember, "I'm-a Luigi, number one!"

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 8:14 am
by Deku Tree
Can do. Good luck.

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 4:19 pm
by Apiary Tazy
Do what makes you comfortable. That's all that matters in the end. :yes:

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 8:09 pm
by Spritedude
That is awesometastic news, Zoe. :cool:

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 8:22 pm
by RinkuTheFirst
I thought about making the "DarkZoero" joke on Twitter, but it's just as silly now.

Congrats! ^_^

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 9:09 pm
by smol Kat
I'm here for the DarkZoe. :) Congrats, and thank you for sharing this with us <3

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Fri May 31, 2019 9:56 pm
by Red
Congrats on making a tough decision.

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Sun Jun 02, 2019 9:00 am
by ScottyMcGee
W00t! Congratulations!

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Sun Jun 02, 2019 6:35 pm
by United Nations
Congrats!

Re: ok so basically im (not) girl

Posted: Sun Jun 02, 2019 11:34 pm
by DarkZero
ok well this is kind of embarrassing

https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sqthvj?new_post=true (its geared towards my Twitter audience but it largely applies here too)

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Mon Jun 03, 2019 10:49 am
by Deku Tree
Glad you could sort that out.

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Mon Jun 03, 2019 3:56 pm
by smol Kat
That kinda thing happens to more people than you think. No worries, friend!

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Tue Jun 04, 2019 2:48 am
by Apollo the Just
DZ's gender is [REDACTED]

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:12 am
by steeze
That's awesome. I'm glad you're figuring out who you really are.

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:52 pm
by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds
Nonbinary is just as valid and we're all behind you 100% for whatever is currently right for you! Your growth and progress is a unique and personal experience. <3

Re: ok so basically im girl

Posted: Wed Jun 05, 2019 11:10 am
by Random User
Aaaaa!!! Very happy that you're exploring yourself, DZ!